The connection between career and family had become increasingly blurred. There is the idea that corporate careers provide money and resources for the sake of the family, or so that they can be happy and thrive. Many people (myself included) spend countless hours working towards white collar jobs and careers so that they can eventually settle down and use their earning for their family
Chora space: My being is and overall personhood is affected by my decisions and work towards this goal of a good job. This time spent at a job will overtake every aspect of my life, and corporate cog will by my definition, as opposed to the person I was before I started working.
This idea is circulated through the popcycle and and if have identified a common mood. When people land jobs and internships it is a moment of victory worth bragging over. They post updates about their jobs on Facebook and talk about them in person often in a celebratory tone. People are happy when these things happen, yet there is no mention of future family goals or overall happiness. The goal is the job, and when that is achieved there is no other factors beside that. People are what high paying job they have, and that is the main factor in their identity.
This highlights the underlying value that family has fallen to 2nd place behind career aspirations. The mood of this that I have witnessed is not one of sadness or sorrow because of a loss of family and closeness with other people. This is replaced by work-friends and the satisfaction of accomplishing job related goals. The drive of working hard in a corporate world and earning money in reward is satisfying, and I as mentioned before, worth bragging over as one might brag over the birth of a child. I am no different in sharing this mood. While I do not have a job yet I am earning a degree and well on the path to white collar America. My family, who live far away from me, share this mood and are excited for my ambitious career goals. They encourage me to continue on this path which, in turn, would mean that I would see less and less of them.
The higher the pay and the higher the career achievement, the higher the praise. Because these things are a priority, the becoming of a corporate superstar becomes the person. We are what we do for most of the hours in a day, and if we work for a job for most of the hours in a day then that is our identity. This affects our thoughts, thus encouraging the process further. Brother, son, sister, friend all become less of a priority because they are encountered only after 5 PM, after 9 hours or more of work. Yet the mood of this is not sorrow. People, even if they do not know it, put there careers first and do not regret this decision.